Showing posts with label What is real love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label What is real love. Show all posts

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Difference between Today’s Love and Yesterday’s Love

Can you guess the difference between today’s love and yesterday’s love? Absolutely flabbergasted by the statement then just read on that what much difference it makes in the eyes of the generations.

People usually find that the big deal of difference is the level of commitment lovers make to each other. With the changing times the level of commitment has also changed. In today’s love people are more likely to break up the relationship or just walk away from the relationship leaving the other person aghast. Thus, we can say that before the “Love” turns from pink to crimson red to totally lose it colour and turns black. But, this was not the thing of the past as people had patience and trust till the “Love Rose” turned from pink to crimson red and enjoyed its total bliss. Well in today’s love people are not much inclined to each other and never try to work out on relationship problems.

Just look at today’s love . It has more demands and stipulations. It plays the game of Ditching. It feels happy by cheating someone. It carves on Physical attraction rather than more devoted consideration. It has no respect for other but craves more expectations. Even though these differences exist between today’s love and yesterday’s love you can find that in a true love there is really no difference as it dwells deep inside the lovers’ heart as pious as God’s blessings.

So, if you really know the essence of love then whether you are in ancient era or modern era it doesn’t make much difference as true love always make life blissful.

Friday, May 15, 2009

What is Real Love?

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. Love never fails. —I Corinthians

This piece of poetry describes the exact characteristics of real love. These qualities can be found in all truly loving relationships. The problem is actually with trying to search “love” in our daily lives. It is often found that most of us don’t look for these characteristics in a person. Instead, we look at physical appearance, wealth and fame. These are not the qualities of true love.


What is real love?

Real love could be said to extend beyond mere infatuation or crush which individuals develop at some point in time. It is a concept which encompasses the feeling of 'infatuation' and requires a higher degree of understanding and application!

A few things could be said to define a loose definition for real love although it may vary from one individual to another.

It is about the right person.......

Real love could be said to be about finding the right person. In other words, falling in love may not be real love. For your likes and dislikes may not align with your 'other half'. As a result, one could say that real love is finding the right person in which case there is a kind of equilibrium between the two individuals.

Knowing the other person