Valentine as a single

Enjoying Valentine’s Day While Single

Valentine’s Day is a day of romance and pampering- a time when couples and love interests go all out to express their love. This is all fine and sweet, what about those who are single? Can singles enjoy a day like Valentine’s Day as well- or is it a day that just feels like one big bitter rub in the face?

Many couples actually enjoy Valentine’s Day on their own- it is all about attitude and how you choose to see things in your life. After all, Valentine’s Day is about love and who better to love first than yourself? If you are still single, it is okay to long for that special relationship, but there is no reason to feel down and unhappy in the meantime. You may not have a romantic relationship right now, but certainly should have a loving relationship with yourself. Use Valentine’s Day as a time to pamper yourself and treat yourself to something you truly want and know that you deserve. Give yourself the attention and love you hope someone will give you one day. It all starts with self love anyway and if you are able to love and treat yourself well first, you will also be able to do the same for someone else, and will also never settle for less than what you are used to giving yourself and know that you deserve.

So forget about moping around this Valentine’s Day! Find something to do that you will enjoy and have fun doing. Some Ideas on what you can do are:

1. Staying in and watching movies of your choice, while munching on some sweet treats
2. Going out with friends and having a fun, singles night out dancing, dining, going to the movies, etc.
3. Cook yourself a delicious dinner, light some candles to create a relaxing mood and cuddle up with a good book where your imagination can runaway with itself.
4. Spread your love by sending out cards and/or baking cookies for loved ones in your life

Make the most of this Valentine’s Day and enjoy being by yourself this time, because who knows- next Valentine’s Day you may no longer be alone and may have someone in your life to treat!

Is Your Partner the Marrying Type?

Sure, you and your partner love each other, you connect well and have a rather healthy relationship but is your partner the one you should marry? Being a great boyfriend or girlfriend is different than being great spouse material. Many people assume that just because they get along great with their partners as boyfriend and girlfriend, that they will automatically end up married, living happily ever after. The sooner you find this out, the better, because it will really prevent a lot of confusion and heart ache later. However, even if you have been with your partner for many years, it does not mean you should stay in the relationship simply because you have been together for a long time. The first thing you need to do is understand what your goals are with your relationship. This way you will be fully aware of your expectations and standards and can then focus on your partner and see whether you two are on the boat or not.marriage doubts

So, how can you tell whether your partner is the marriage type? Well, the signs are very clear to read, if you are just willing to see the truth and nothing but the truth, even if it is not always what you want. The first step in seeing this truth, is throwing your blinders away and to observe all angles of your relationship- not just the wonderful parts that you want to see. If you are the type of person who would like to settle down and get married when the time is right, then you are naturally going to want a partner who will have the same dreams and goals as you when it comes to love and relationships. While this is only natural, you should not assume that just because you are involved with your partner in a serious relationship that it will end in marriage. This is exactly why you must talk about this with your partner once your relationship reaches a comfortable enough point to talk about marriage and commitment.

Of course, there are some relationships where it is difficult to read your partner, due mixed signals. If you feel that your partner loves you, but are not really sure whether he or she will ever actually get married to you, then the following signs are what you should look out for:

marriage doubts Your partner tries to change the subject or brushes you off whenever you bring up marriage.

marriage doubts He or she tells you that marriage is not something that he/she is too crazy about.

marriage doubts Tells you that he/she wants to marry you, but keeps making excuses on why you cannot marry now and keeps you waiting for a long time (years).

To Continue part two of this article of:Is Your Partner the Marrying Type?

How to forgive an Affair and how to move on.

The discovery of an affair will attack you with shock, anger and numbness. No matter what way you choose to react, your surroundings will look the same afterwards because you have not yet started coping with what has transpired. You find that you are suddenly lost due to being caught off guard. You never thought this would happen to you. So when it does, what should you do when this painful truth is revealed and how can you forgive it?

The first thing to do when you find out that your partner has been cheating is to allow your emotions to flow out of your body. Holding your feelings in will only make you feel worse and cause a tremendous amount of stress both physically and mentally. Once you have expressed your instant reaction, you can start thinking more slowly and rationally. You will start examining your relationship, wondering where it went wrong and if it was ever as wonderful as you claimed it to be. You will create a chain of questions that have not yet been answered and will start feeling farther and farther away from getting any of them answered. Everything will be sorted out time, but first thing is first and that is getting your emotions sorted out.

Once your emotions have been expressed and sorted out, it is important to remember to not give the affair more power over your life than it deserves, even though at the time being, it feels like the end of the world. The fact of the matter is, it is not the end of the world, but has changed your world and the way you look at it, which is understandable. Know that your partner's affair has nothing to do with his or her love for you, nor does it make you a failure in relationships. What the affair does tell you though, is that there are essential issues that need to be addressed. It is normal to be angry and unable to calmly discuss this with your partner, so let him or her know that (without getting violent or throwing them out of course). Let him or her know that you are deeply hurt and angry that they chose an affair as a way to deal with the issues in your relationship and you are not ready to talk about it just yet.

When you are ready, where do you start? It will be difficult to focus on the discussion if you are torturing yourself with visual thoughts of the cheating act. Make an effort to be strong and avoid the unnecessary painful thoughts that will in no way make you feel better or get your relationship back on track. You know what goes on when two people are intimate, so save yourself the details you already know and spare yourself the hurt. The focus is to find and establish the reasons for the affair and ways you can move on with your lives together, with a new and improved affair proof relationship. Good communication will be the key to your road to recovery, so be sure to ask the right questions, listen with undivided attention and understanding, as well as answering the questions you are asked and finding suitable solutions on how to prevent the same event in the future.

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Difference between Today’s Love and Yesterday’s Love

Can you guess the difference between today’s love and yesterday’s love? Absolutely flabbergasted by the statement then just read on that what much difference it makes in the eyes of the generations.

People usually find that the big deal of difference is the level of commitment lovers make to each other. With the changing times the level of commitment has also changed. In today’s love people are more likely to break up the relationship or just walk away from the relationship leaving the other person aghast. Thus, we can say that before the “Love” turns from pink to crimson red to totally lose it colour and turns black. But, this was not the thing of the past as people had patience and trust till the “Love Rose” turned from pink to crimson red and enjoyed its total bliss. Well in today’s love people are not much inclined to each other and never try to work out on relationship problems.

Just look at today’s love . It has more demands and stipulations. It plays the game of Ditching. It feels happy by cheating someone. It carves on Physical attraction rather than more devoted consideration. It has no respect for other but craves more expectations. Even though these differences exist between today’s love and yesterday’s love you can find that in a true love there is really no difference as it dwells deep inside the lovers’ heart as pious as God’s blessings.

So, if you really know the essence of love then whether you are in ancient era or modern era it doesn’t make much difference as true love always make life blissful.

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What is Real Love?

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. Love never fails. —I Corinthians

This piece of poetry describes the exact characteristics of real love. These qualities can be found in all truly loving relationships. The problem is actually with trying to search “love” in our daily lives. It is often found that most of us don’t look for these characteristics in a person. Instead, we look at physical appearance, wealth and fame. These are not the qualities of true love.


What is real love?

Real love could be said to extend beyond mere infatuation or crush which individuals develop at some point in time. It is a concept which encompasses the feeling of 'infatuation' and requires a higher degree of understanding and application!

A few things could be said to define a loose definition for real love although it may vary from one individual to another.

It is about the right person.......

Real love could be said to be about finding the right person. In other words, falling in love may not be real love. For your likes and dislikes may not align with your 'other half'. As a result, one could say that real love is finding the right person in which case there is a kind of equilibrium between the two individuals.

Knowing the other person